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Revisiting “13 Things Mentally Strong Parents Don’t Do”

During this time of “shelter in place,” I’m tempted to give myself a bigger break than usual when it comes to parenting. Then I remember two things: one, we don’t know how long we’re going to be dealing with this, if this is, in fact, the “new normal,” and two, if I relax my parenting now, I might be giving myself more work for later to fix habits I’ve undone in a couple of weeks. So to help me stay “strong,” I’m falling back on some great guidance I once found in “13 Things Mentally Strong Parents Don’t Do” by … Continue reading Revisiting “13 Things Mentally Strong Parents Don’t Do”

6 Habits to Fight Myopia

I’ve been nearsighted since I was eight and I’ve always hated that. Contacts or glasses – it’s just one extra thing you have to do. Plus, I can hardly do anything without them. Ever read “Lord of the Flies”? Remember Piggy and how useless he becomes without his glasses? Don’t worry if you’ve never read it, but if you have, then you can know that I have recurring nightmares about becoming Piggy. Children’s vision at highest risk  Kids are usually born with perfect vision and we should help them preserve their vision for as long as possible! Our eyes are … Continue reading 6 Habits to Fight Myopia

The Careful Parent’s Guide to Buying Children’s Shoes

I never would have thought that buying shoes for children would be a complicated matter. But one day in my early shoe-buying days, I wondered how much space there should be between the top of my child’s toe and the top of the shoe. I looked it up as usual and the search results opened a Pandora’s box of other considerations that changed the way I thought about footwear.  Footwear in general My major takeaways on footwear in general: Research in this area is slowly emerging and evolving https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2010/aug/09/barefoot-best-for-children https://lermagazine.com/cover_story/thinking-small-making-strides-in-childrens-footwear There is a movement away from stiff and over-supportive shoe … Continue reading The Careful Parent’s Guide to Buying Children’s Shoes